Thursday, 28 May 2020

APNI SOUCH KO POSITIVE RAKHO

Aik mard ki souch ko badalnay ki kosheh kahan tk kamiyab hai ye to aap mashray ka haal dekh kar he andaza laga sakty hain, khas tor per Europe aur America ki taraf nazar doraai jaaye to andaza hojaye ga.

Sara zoor is bat per lagaya jaraha hai k jb aik mard apni behen ko achi nigah se dekhta hai to phir wo kesi dusri aurat ko kyun nhe dekhta, sawal ye paida hota hai kya koi normal mard apni behen se shadi kar sakta hai ya taluq qaim kar sakta hai, agar usay kaha bhi jaaye, aik normal insaan kabhi bhi apni behen ki taraf rukh nhe karay ga, aur naa wo is me khushi mehsoos kar saky ga. Aik mard ki fitrat me behen aur ger aurat ka farq qudrati tor per hota hai.

Jo aurtain behnon wali misaalen deti hain k dusron ko bhi apni behen samjho un se pucha jaaye k wo dost kyun ger larkon ko banati hain aur un se kyun hr waqt batain karti rehti hain, dost bhi apny bhai ko he banayen kesi aur ko nhe, apny bhaiyon se he hr waqt batain karen aur un k sat he hoteling karen, magar nhe, khushi to sirf ger mard k sat phirnay me hai, phir aik mard se shikwa kyun? Phir nuqsaan uthanay per khali mard kyun qasoorwar?

Aap ne apni limitations ko cross keya to aik mard ne apni limitations ko cross keya. Ye limitations kon define kary ga. Mazhab ki baat ko to aap ne manna nhe na follow karna hai, phir aurat ka rape hojaye to sirf aik mard he kyun qasoorwar, is liye k nuqsaan sirf aurat ka horaha hai? Jab aik aurat ne apni limitation ko cross keya tha to kya aik mard ka us waqt nuqsaan nhe horaha tha? wo behek raha tha, usay behkaya kis ne, pehli dafa me to usne rape nhe keya hoga na pehli mulaqat me, wo padaishi tor per to rapest nhe tha, usay rapest banaya kis ne? Us ki fitrat ko is satah tk laya kon, usay uksaya kis ne?

Koi mard apni fitrat ko control karne me kamiyab hojata hai koi nhe. Aur wo bhi hain jo chahtay he nhe apni fitrat ko qabu karna, un se kesay bachen gi?

Mera sb logon se sirf yehi sawal hai k koi mard bhi padaishi tor per rapest nhe hota phir agar koi mard rape karne ka irada karle to us ko is haal tk pouchnay walon ki kya saza hona chahye? Jinhone aik normal insaan ko rapest bana deya un ki kya saza hona chahye?

Aik aurat ko mard ki jo batain aadatain mutassir karti hain, aik mard ko us se zada aik aurat ki wo batain mutassir karti hain.

Kyun talaqen tezi se horahi hain, kyun aaj kal k shohar talaq deny me asraa nhe kar rahy? Zahri se baat hai aik bivi k jis wajood ne usay mutassir karna tha aur jis se mutassir ho kar aik shohar ne talaq deny se pehly 100 dafa sochna tha wo to usay aam dekhnay ko mil raha hai, aur wo bezaar bhi hochuka hai us se, to phir usay bivi me kya kasheh mehsoos hogi?

Aik asaan Misaal: Jb aap shuru se Land Cruiser dekh rahy hon, aur aap k walid aap ko Cultus dila den, Land Cruiser aap k bas me naa bhi ho to kya aap ko apne Cultus gari se pyar hojaye ga? Yehi farq hai bepardagi aur khubsoorat larkiyon se dosti k bad larkay kesi km shakal-o-soorat wali larki ko dil se nhe apnatay aur zada arsa khush bhi nhe reh paatay, ise liye Pardah Islam me zaruri hai, aur na mehramon se dosti wagera, aur un k samne saj dhaj kar jana mana hai, taakay shadi k bad jb wo apni bivi ki asli shakal dekhay to us se bezaar na ho, kyun k asal shakal to dekhna he shadi k bad naseeb hoti hai.

Larkay sb se zada shakal per martay hain aur sb se zada unhe ko shakal ka dhoka deya jaata hai, phir wo kesay mohabbat karengy, Land Cruiser laya tha, soo kar subha utha to Cultus ban gai.

Note farhayen: Is article me kamzoor aur namardon ki batain nhe ki gai hain. Jin kuwaray mardon ko nangi tangon wali aurton ko dekh kar bhi koi asar nhe hota, wo apni souch ko positive samajhne ki khush fahmi me na rahen, unhain chahye k apni shadi se pehly kesi achy hakeem ka intezam karlen, kyun k shadi k kuch dinon bad unhain shadeed zarurat parny wali hai.

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